Monday, June 8, 2015

Why I Like My New Phone Case...It's Not What You Think.

     As a fan of the television show SUPERNATURAL it made sense that my husband would get me a phone case with its stars adorned on it. However, it goes much deeper than being a fan of the show. It's about what the case (and shirts) represent. "Always keep fighting" is the campaign driven by SPN star Jared Padalecki, and now his co-star Jensen Ackles.The campaign focuses on the fight for mental illnesses, depression and for those contemplating suicide. This is something near and dear to his(Padalecki's) heart, " I, for a long time, have been passionate about people dealing with mental illness and struggling with depression, or addiction, or having suicidal thoughts and, strangely enough, it’s almost like the life I live, as well." You can find the complete interview with Padalecki here.
   It's not just about him, it's about dealing with my own depression and the things I have gone through in my life. While I have never known the lows of suicidal thoughts, I have known people in my life who have comtemplated taking their own life. I also know people with addicitons and mental illness. This is the reason I like my new phone case. It is not because of the dual portrait of the actors. It is because they are raising awareness of something that has long been brushed under the carpet because people are not comfortable talking about it. It is time to start talking about it and helping ourselves and those in need to "always keep fighting." We have barely scratched the surface when it comes to mental illness, depression, and additcitons. The more we are keenly aware of what is going on the more we can help in the fight.
     I turn my phone so the case is showing, not so people will notice Jensen Ackles and Jared Padalecki, but so they see the tag, "Always keep fighting."

National Suicide Hotline
1-800-273-8255 this number is available 24/7 

If you have the slightest inkling that something is wrong with someone, and that you are inclined to check on them for any reason follow through with that feeling. You do not have to over explain your intentions, just let them know you were thinking of them and wanted to say hi.It might open a door to help them. It might not. The fact is we do not know. Reach out when the feeling to do so strikes.  I like my new phone case, but it's not why you would think. 

Tuesday, March 31, 2015

Ten Things to Smile About

I am joining up with Emmy today for Ten Things to Smile About where we get to remember ten things that made us smile in the past month! What a wonderful gift to think about the positives in life.

Emmy Mom

First I'm sorry not sorry  for the amount of times my smiles are a direct result of my kids or actors. I'm just easily amused and a proud Mama.

1.  Kristin was the best Fairy Godmother!  She simply shined and she was so adorable with the little girls.
Just look at the little on the left.  It's too much! 

2.  Sometimes I play Mario Kart with Ryan on the WiiU. We trash talk each other, and the computer players. It's all in good fun.

3.  And speaking of Ryan...he had to a biography of a favorite scientist/inventor complete with a short video.
Thanks to Kristin for editing the video.

4.  Emily got her hair colored a nice golden blone (weaves) it looks so pretty and natural. And bonus she really likes it!  
She's so stinking cute!
5.  If this silly cat video wasn't funny enough....

But then my favorite actors Jensen Ackles and Misha Collins from Supernatural had to go and ACT it out in CHARACTER! Jensen in the closet as Dean Winchester and Misha as Castiel in the trench coat.

I can't tell you how long I laughed over this. It was ridiculous! They are fantastically silly.

6.  Kristin was asked to prom... not like, "Kristin do you want to go to prom with me?"  But a full flegded "prom-posal." 

7.  Which leads me to prom dress shopping... it wasn't too terrible. Kristin is a joy to shop with. The dresses are what is hard. We lucked out at Macy's. While the dress is sleeveless, it still goes up and over.  Very charming and covers. Prom is not til May 9th. Sorry. It is a peachy/pink.  

8.  Ummm we have a game of Clue which is modeled after the game of Supernatural. We have lots of fun with that.

I may or may not have bought this air freshner.  What does is smell like?  Angel.

10.  Two words:  Spring Break!

What made you smile this month.

Thursday, March 12, 2015

Friday Five

Emmy Mom

Good grief it has been so long since I last blogged that literally forgot how to get into blogger so that I could actually write a post! This is serious people! I am a writer after all. A writer in school, with three very busy children and one crazy life! So when I saw Emmy's tweet about Friday Five and my homework was done I thought I would dive in!  

I will do thoughts first....don't be scared though okay.

1. I am really scared about my new class. It is math and I never did well. But see here's the thing. I have to prove to myself and my kids that the only way to overcome the "I suck at it" attitude is to dive right in and do it. That is what I am doing.  

2.  Netflix is a great and terrible thing. It's great because you can sit and watch hours of TV with absolutely no commercial interruption! It's terrible for the exact same reason.

3. I am not old enough to have a daughter who is graduating from high school. Yet, she will be.

4. Sometimes I think I am 19. I took a quiz that verified that fact for me. 

5. I am the crazy cat lady...our cats follow me around just because I feed them and stuff.

Now for pictures....

We went paddle boating last month. It was fun.

I've been doing family history with my church* and my mom brought me this picture(plus a whole LOT more) The lady with the SHOTGUN would be MY great grandmother thank you very much!

I got a new phone case to go with my new phone. Sweet isn't it?
So Kristin is Rodger's & Hammerstein's Cinderella at her school. She is The Fairy Godmother.

This is how the play opens.

I don't know when I will be back, but I sure hope it will be soon enough that I will remember how to find blogger and write a blog post!

* The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints has a web site for family history. There is also I reccommend both for getting started. Our local churches also have history centers with people who can help you (and hours set up). 

Tuesday, October 14, 2014

POYHO~ This Helps How?

What do you do when the school year starts off bad?  What do you when your child is being is targeted by a so called friend on a daily basis? What do you do when despite emails and meetings your child has taken matters into their hands?

Middle is school is brutal? How about the fourth grade? This has been the first two months of fourth grade for my son. A rotten turd child (yes I will call him that) has been picking on Ryan since school started. If that wasn't enough, a so called friend of his has joined this boy in this terrible treatment. Now when a random kid picks on a kid it is bullying. When a "friend" does it, I call this abuse. Certainly a nine year old doesn't realize he is abusing his friend, but let's face it, it is in fact abuse. These boys relish and delight in teasing and harassing Ryan for anything their simple minds can come up with, which at  nine is limited. However, when you are nine as well feelings can be hurt easily. Unfortunately this is where the retaliation comes in. Ryan, like any other human being could only take so much and he snapped. He has resorted to hitting, pushing and kicking. That isn't to say these other boys didn't fight back, it is just that Ryan threw the first punch. Suddenly Ryan is the problem.

Now before anyone gets upset, let me explain that I did address this with the teacher. I felt like this was a problem and seemed one-sided. (I still do--which is why I am blogging after months of hiatus.) The problem here is I am not allowed to know the details of these boys' discipline or action plan. I just have to "have faith" that steps have been made. I can't really have much faith when they continue to harass my son and my son is basically on isolation. He is doing tech stuff on computers with the teacher during recess time. Now he likes this, and he is learning how to do things on the computer, but I am wondering what steps are being taken to correct the behavoir of the boys in question. Do they get to continue acting like little jerks, because there are jerks in the world? That is the message I got today and the message I heard my son get. I also felt like he had to just put up with it. To be fair, he was given some tools and action plans in order to defend that did not include violence. However, in a class of 31 students my son only has issue with two boys. Does this seem slightly off to anyone else?

I was in a bad mood the rest of the day. I cried. I didn't say anything further to my son other than funny stuff he could think in his head, because let's face it if he said anything verbal he would be the one in trouble.  I kept my mouth shut, mostly because it was his birthday yesterday and I didn't want to spoil his day with my rotten attitude. But what would you do?  Am I overreacting?

I am linking up with Shell today for Poor Your Heart Out.  You can too!

Tuesday, May 27, 2014

Ten Things That Made Me Smile: May

Emmy Mom

It is time to reflect on what made me smile in the month of May, so I am linking up with my bestie Emmy to tell you all about it.  Ready?  Here we go.

1.  Free Comic Book Day because we dressed up and had fun...

2.  We did Relay For Life on that same day...part of it in costume...part of it as normal human beings.

Those Firemen though!

3.   There were several kids little and not so little who wanted hugs and pictures with Kristin and Emily on Free Comic Book Day.  I am shooting for dressing them as Queen Elsa (Kristin) and Ana(Emily) for Halloween.  OMG how cute would they be???  And they would be followed by all the little girls!!  Soooo cute.  Me?  Ummm....Marshmallow the big mean snowman.  Hahaha.

4.  I get some of the strangest followers for things I tweet?  So, come on Tom Hiddleston...follow me already!  Seriously though, I have DisneyFrozen following me, KidsTalent, A life coach, just to name a few.  

5.  We saw Captain America: The Winter Soldier....twice.  Oh you need to see this....
Because Chris Evans...

6.  Kristin participated in "Night of Incredible Scenes."  She directed one from Big Bang Theory.  She was Penny.  She had an absolute blast doing it.  And yes, it totally made me smile.

The cutest reincarnation of George Washington ever to be this on planet.  All of third grade did a "Living Wax Museum" and he was George Washington.  No wig...though I could have used corn starch.  I used that once for a performance! Hahaha.

Mother's Day  I was Queen for a day.

9.  And speaking of Mother's Day...they made a cute video(at church) with all the children.  Two things Ryan said that made me laugh extra hard:  What does your Mom do that is funny(I think that was the question) Ryan said:  When we watch The Avengers, of we play tricks on each other that means you are "Loki-fied"  (This is actually his word) hahaha.  The other question:  If you had a million dollars what would you buy for your Mom?  His answer:  A red mustang.  My boy!  hahaha.

Because it's cute. (Because he is)

We went to Mulligan's yesterday and had lots of fun!

Tuesday, May 6, 2014

I Know I'm Crazy, It's Okay...

How many of you know that first Saturday in May is Free Comic Book Day?  Don't feel bad if you don't because I didn't know for years.  Then when my son was about 5 we went for the first time and it was a blast.  I had no idea what to expect.  They had charcters there.  Darth Vader, Storm Troopers, Spider-Man, Robin, just to name a few.  Plus the pizza place next door was really smart and did a special offer that day for the patron's of the comic book store.  Then, the next year we went again and it was more fun.  Well last year, started a new tradition with Kristin cosplaying as The Joker.  (Heath Ledger's).

You can guess which one is her.

She was a major hit last year.  She even got a pic with Batman.  This was like a dream come true for her.  Then it got ten times better when Batman asked if she would pose with his daughter who was dressed up like Batgirl!  

So this year she did it again, and so did Emily...and so did I!  Yup.  Me.    

Kristin and Emily were Jack Frost(Rise of the Guardians--if you haven't seen it please do!) and Elsa (Frozen---if you haven't seen it I can't talk to you anymore!)  They both got asked for pictures and hugs!

Costumes are homemade...wigs are bought.  (it was HOT!)


But I said I did it too...

No, I wasn't a missionary!  You sillies!  But they were there!  Oh I had a good time pretending...but even more fun here....
At the Relay for Life in the fight against cancer, because folks even LOKI hates cancer!!  And let's face it, FIREMEN!  Hello!  Kristin posed with them as Jack but alas, I do not have that one.  Howver...we went home for a bit...changed and came back since it was a 24 hour event and posed with the same firemen! 
Oh darn, those firemen didn't recognize us!

My mom was there for this round.  She walked a 5K thank you very much!

Me and my fierce WW Leader and Team Leader for Relay for Life!  You Go Kimmy!

Oh and how much did I walk?  Well....
the 5K charm marks the point when I completed a 5K.  I walked a 10K.  Not to shabby.  I was sore the next day.  

Tuesday, April 29, 2014

Ten Things To Smile About...

Emmy Mom

I've got ten things that made me smile this month, and I went and forgot!  So now that I remembered....I am linking up with my bestie Emmy!  

1.   We went and saw Captain America:  The Winter Soldier.  You know...I blame you for all of this Emmy.  I was fine until I saw Thor and The Avengers.  Yep, it's all your fault.  

2.  There was also was nice.  We have interesting eggs...

3.  We took family pictures (twice actually) and got some nice pictures

4.   I have lost 14's a tough battle...especially when you like food.

5.  Speaking of food, I may or may not have had pie at Marie Callander's, and piece of said pie may or may not have fallen off my fork and into my shirt....INTO.  That was a sight...maybe.

6.   I recently referred to myself as a misfit on FB.  I am fine with that.  I wouldn't have it any other way.  I like who I am:  A misfit.  :)

7.  Speaking of being a misfit...I recently was browsing in HOT TOPIC....have you ever been there?  It's a lot of fun to shop in there.  They have all kinds of geeky fun stuff, rock stuck, metal stuff, you name it.  The music is...well it is not my style...nor are the employees, or most of the my surprise when I saw someone from church there.

8.  I arm wrestled my niece who is 24 by the way, and I won.  Oh and I did it left-handed.  She will tell you she lost because she was laughing.  I will tell you she was putting her weight into it, and I am not left-handed.

9.  Kristin is directing a scene for drama...she and a select few other students got chosen for A Night of Incredible Scenes.  She picked a scene from BIG BANG THEORY, pitched it and was one of them that was chosen.  I can't wait to see it.

10.  Sometimes, something like Shakespeare can make you smile!  From Macbeth:

Brilliance!  I love it.

What made you smile this month?