Drop Off
I want to gripe talk a little about "drop off" at school. Particularly at the elementary level. I don't like to brag, but I like to think of myself as a semi-professional at this drop off thing. Let's look at the the words ... drop off...to me this implies dropping off. All too often what I am seeing is parents who drop their child off and watch and wait and wait as their child walks and makes their way all the way inside the school. Okay, I get it. This is your child. She/he is your baby. Blah blah blah! If you really want to treasure and cherish each moment, park the car and walk with the child. I have another child who goes to another school two miles away and on three days a week a husband who needs to get to work. I do not have time to watch you make sure Baby Boo gets inside okay. If that is priority one for you, then park it and walk!
I know I sound heartless, but I have been at this for 9 years now. And even watching my own baby bound out of the car, I promise you I am pulling away before he even reaches the gate. And he is fine. He happily gets to where he needs to be. And here's the best part. When I pick him up...that is when I park and walk to greet him. He rushes to me with a big smile and arms wide open. Nothing beats that. And we walk together and talk about his day. It's awesome. And I am not in anybody's way.
So what do you do at drop off?
I know I sound heartless, but I have been at this for 9 years now. And even watching my own baby bound out of the car, I promise you I am pulling away before he even reaches the gate. And he is fine. He happily gets to where he needs to be. And here's the best part. When I pick him up...that is when I park and walk to greet him. He rushes to me with a big smile and arms wide open. Nothing beats that. And we walk together and talk about his day. It's awesome. And I am not in anybody's way.
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And the kids do not care!